You're a fierce bitch, so start acting like it!

I spent many years of my life being a people-pleaser, so learning how to be more assertive and difficult has been... well, difficult.

Which is why I love this article so very, very much. While I'm not fond of the term "difficult", it's being used to classify how some might see a woman who is owning her fierceness and not putting up with anyone's crap.  It's the same as calling a woman a bitch, honestly.  And you know what?  This bitch doesn't give a rat's ass what you call her.

Neither does Beyonce, she has got NO time for that shit.

We should be proud to have strong opinions and to not be silent and well-behaved because that's what's expected of us.  It's the age of the diva!  As women, we need to own our bodies and our rights to be outspoken and sexual creatures if that's what we choose to be.  The only thing you need to be is you.  Don't be afraid to speak up because you're afraid of what someone else will think.  We're silenced way too often and called "crazy" because of our emotions.  Guess what, just because someone can't handle what you're putting out doesn't make you crazy.  It makes them immature and unable to cope with what you're saying.

Don't stifle yourselves because someone else thinks you're not being enough of a lady.  You're way too much lady for them to handle.  Go out there and get it, divas.

XOXO, Katz

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